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The Bruised Reed

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 Caregiving is not for the weak at heart! No matter what our unique situations encompass, it's rough all the way around. We all have different scenarios, which means we really cannot compare one with another. But we all carry an emotional load. We all have to rely on God. There are other common threads including social isoloation (one degree or another), grief, feelings of loss and a disruption of "normal" living. Our souls can become bruised by the turmoil that comes with the day-to-day. I was working through a few things this morning on emotional and practical levels, trying to come up with some solutions. As a long sigh suprised me by escaping without any forethought, for one moment, I felt lost. My soul bore the weight of the last 16 years as some of it snuck out. I wondered about all my caregiving friends and prayed for our bruised souls. Then, I thought of the phrase in Isaiah 42:3 - A bruised reed He will not break...   What kind of gentleness is needed to not brea...

Who's Holding Who?

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 One of my latest projects is a devotional for the weary soul.  As I was gathering my list of scriptures to use, I started thinking about how I am that weary soul! Sometimes, caregivers just get tired through and through. There doesn't seem to be a place to stop. To rest. It's just so 24/7. We must be always on duty.  And that can wear us out.  While I was thinking about this yesterday, I thought, I'm just too tired to "hold on." Ever feel that way? I know I need to hold on to God, but what happens during those times when I am just too tired?  I let my thoughts run through some of my Bible heroes, some of those who must have gotten tired, too. I thought of Joseph sitting in the jail cell all those years. Did he ever get tired? Then, I thought about Daniel living most of his life in Babylonian captivity. Did Daniel get tired? I know David got tired, because he let us know in the Psalms that he was weary, tired, and more! I think we are in good company. :-) Then, ...

Prisons and Palaces

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  Philippians is an interesting New Testament book. Paul wrote it to the new believers while he was sitting in a jail cell. His future was uncertain on this earth, but his heart was grounded in the truth of God's word. He made some very strong statements to the church at Philippi. In fact, he started in the first chapter. In verse 6, Paul says, He who began a good work in you will complete it.  That's a pretty bold statement for someone spending his days and nights in a prison cell awaiting his fate. What a great representation of how faith works, though, right? But he gets more extreme in chapter 2, because he reminds Christians to do all things without complaining. Really, Paul? Do you know my circumstances? Do you know my struggle? Of course, he does not - but he knew his own. He also knew how his own heart longed to be out traveling, establishing churches, and encouraging believers. Yet, here he was spending his time locked up. So he chose to write...and not complain. See,...

Those People?

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In the Old Testament, Gentiles were outcasts. There was a "Court of the Gentiles" in the temple plans, but they could never go into the inner courts. Just because they were not Jewish - they were Gentile. It could be easy to think that we are the outcasts and rejected based on something we cannot control, right? Seems like prejudice at its best. Lol. Of course, Paul mentioned in Galatians 3 that we are all in Christ,  and there is no more separation of the Jew and the Gentile - we now belong to the same class - we are HIS! But in the Old Testament, the dividing wall (Ephesians 2:14-19) had not been torn down and the Gentiles were separated. However, I notice this interesting trend. Every so often, maybe God forgot or something, but He included us in the promise. I've got two examples. Isaiah 60:1-3. God is prophesying through Isaiah, the prophet. He is really talking about the coming of the Messiah, Jesus. The light has come! Even in the midst of the earth's darkness,...

Where Was God?

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 I'm trying to stay off social media for the most part, except for the posts that I need to make. It's volatile and toxic, to say the least, and there's no such thing as a reasonable discussion. So, I'm mostly taking a break. But this morning, I had to post the link to this blog and a couple of other things, so I scrolled my FaceBook feed for just a minute.  There was a story of a police officer who had been in his patrol car during the recent tornado outbreak across the eastern US. The twister picked the police car up with him inside. Twisted it around and spit it out a way down the road. Scary ordeal, by any measure. The posting party stated that the officer suffered some very significant injuries and that he had quite the road to recovery. Then they said, " God was with him." I know they meant this in a grateful way and that the man was spared because God was with him.   But it kinda set off a bunch of questions for me. Firstly, if God was with him (and of ...

Caregiver Stress: Eating to Beat It (Naturally and Spiritually)

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 Stress for caregivers can't be measured, leveraged, or turned off. I don't think anyone will argue that caregivers live stressful lives. In fact, my own stress was the reason I started this blog 15 years ago. I started out just writing what I needed to hear. And here we are!  Caregiver stress can lead to burnout if we don't manage it. But that's no small task.  As believers, we know how to soothe our spirit. I have my go-to verses that I lean on and put at the forefront of my mind every single day. I may sit at the piano and sing the verses to make sure they are tucked into my heart. Or I might use them to write a new tune while I strum my guitar. I memorize scriptures and meditate on them. The word has definitely been what has gotten me through some of the roughest passages and darkest nights. Here are a few that I find myself running to over and over again. Psalm 46:1 - God is our refuge and strength, a very present help  in times of trouble. Isaiah 43: 1-3 - God ...

Rent Free?

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 During my personal devotions this morning, I continued reading in Nehemiah. I am always amazed at how blatantly evil some people can be. Nehemiah has a heart to rebuild Jerusalem. As he is working, evil people begin to say things to him solely for the purpose of discouraging him from continuing the work.  In Nehemiah 2:10, Sanballat and Tobiah were deeply disturbed  when they heard someone had come wanting to do good. How messed up is that? In the first verse of chapter 4, Sanballat and Tobiah become furious and indignant just because Nehemiah was rebuilding the wall. They started mocking the workers and making fun of their work. They laughed at them. In verse 8 of chapter 4, it says they tried to create confusion.  How crazy is all that? And basically, all for nothing except to create fear, confusion, doubt, and discouragement.  Doesn't that sound a LOT like the enemy of our souls? I don't know about you, but I know me - and I have tons, thousands of questions...